Charing Bell.. : starts clapping : Not only did I find your opinion well said,but I agree. Starting to have a little hope in this site again.

: brace face : My bad, Charing Ball. Hey hey hey,Give me a break,you had a couple spelling and word errors in there too!

Word to Charing Bell... This was a dern nice article. You hit the nail on the head.

Blah blah blah....

Sometimes I wish I was born white. But a beautiful white woman not a ugly one.

Dumb.

Clearly you don't know what it's like to be black. But I agree with the first half of what you said.

White privilege makes it better for whites, no matter if they are on food stamps or not...WHITE PRIVILEGE has real power.

Actually being white would make things better...after all...it is easier being white.

 You CLEARLY have issues that you need to work out if that's the case. I feel sorry for people like you!

You can be an ugly white woman and still have the same privilege.

Charing Ball.  You are amazing. That is all.

Phd written material!

EXCELLENT! havent read such great stuff in a while. 

LOL @ Madonna talking about out of context behavior! hahaha MIA ALL DAY!

It is what it is, if Madonna runs around in public naked she is somehow empowering women and perpetuating gay pride. *someone just please explain this to me. please*

Now if lady of color tries that black or latina. ho ho houston we've got a problem a ignorant crazy woman is violating our conservative morals, o my god I, I think her hair is nappy...CALL FOR BACK UP!

The white woman is the darling sheep of our world and must be protected from bad press, judgement and most of them darn mandingos running around. O no societies angel can do no wrong because she couldnt possible harm not even a itty bitty fly. She's so precious.

Message to black women and BLACK MEN especially raise well informed children with a comprehensive sense of self and the implications of racial interactions in a society with a history such as that of the united states.

 LMAO! you just cracked me up!

First of all white women have always been able to be seen as the virtuous ones although we all know the truth. A great number of black men see her as the ultimate goal while putting the black woman down and making it seem like she is the worse being on earth. Secondly, the white woman is stupid enough to believe it and goes around spouting her disdain for the black woman and sending a message loud and clear that the black woman is a sad and pathetic creature of doom Chelsea and Madonna are indicative of this type of ignorance. Has anyone ever wondered why they try to be us, butt implants, lip implants, breast implants and tanning is all in an attempt to look like us but they are grateful they are not us so the next best thing to do is to insult us. The black woman regardless of how educated she is and how far she has come and will go will always have various women of other racial backgrounds insult us because that is all they can do. Those of us who try to look like them only gives credence to their claims. Our strength is in our faith and we know who we are and those of us who don't need to search themselves and get it together and stop allowing yourself to be morally bankrupt. Believe it or not some black men use us more than any other will this of course is because of their own insecurities and ignorance case in point Bow Wow and 50 cent along with many others.

I agree with you 100%.........You summed it up so very well.

agree with you, except on the fact that big butt / big breasts / big lips are features only specific to Black people. As far as Europe is concerned, Italian women and Spanish women are famous for hawing those, many Slavic women too

a reader from France

It took a lot of words to conclude that Madonna and Chelsea Handlers are users/capitalist.   I could congratulate the writer but any close viewing of western culture plainly reveals that explotation is the cornerstone of this society.   That whole "trickle down" economic theory is nothing but each social/economic group exploiting the one below for profit.   I am not going to get on the blame the white woman band wagon because why should they be different from anyone else in their pursuit to to get ahead. 

Many of these performers of color are not above exploiting their own racial/ethnic group for profit, rating or publicity.  That is what the rappers do in their exploitation of black women in their videos and their music and women do it to each other in their pursuits regardless of color.  Folks are going to always pimp others if they can.  Plus many of us allow ourselves to be pimped so we can get into the position to pimp the other person coming up.  

The fact that Rock music can go from a majority black art form to a majority white art form in 60 years is representative of good old American capitalism at work.  So we can attempt to peddle these fallacies of fairness but the truth is the system is set up to capitalize on others labor unfairly. 

Powerful statement! Three cheers.

You sound like an insecure blk woman. All off these posts do. My gf is white and in no way diabolical like you say.

Does she know how much time you spend online arguing with Black Women?
Your a regular here!

Typical stupid, ignorant, bitter black boy...with a white girlfriend, yet on a black site attacking black women...wonder what your "white girlfriend" would think about how you spend your pathetic time?

Dear Rosario,

I am a white, South African woman and Rosario, I take offense at your statement:  "how trifling and phony white women are. They can't be trusted which is the #1 reason as to why I refuse to befriend any white women." I agree that people like Madonna, white women if you will, perform these stunts to stay relevant but for goodness' sake, she is the last person I would want to be associated with just because she's white! I am not 'phony' and, according to the Encarta Dictionary, I am definitely NOT "insignificant, trivial, or of little value". I think this article is spot on and when Charing Bell writes:" it is always a person of color who has to bear the brunt of her license of liberation?" she could not be more accurate. I do, however, believe that this article does not refer to every white woman on earth and perhaps it was not meant as a Let's-Trash-White-Women-In-General piece. 
I am not expecting you to befriend a white person but please remember that we are all God's children and statements like yours only serve to widen the acceptance gap.

Kindest regards.

Oh really? You wouldn't give up your white privilege if your very life depended on it...

And you are the resident expert on my "white privilege" in SA? Well traveled are we? Troll much?

I disagree. I mean, I know ww do have the privilege of acting like a slut and it being applauded whereas if someone black did the same thing they would be called a h@. But I doubt if Madonna or Chelste is thinking that deeply when they make their decisions.

Madonna does songs with a lot of young hot stars to stay relevant. It has nothing to do with race. Madonna has a selective memory. She also said she didn't allow her daughter to watch tv because it's a bad influence, and that's equally as hypocritical as the M.I.A. situation. Once again, nothing to do with race.

You never read the article.

Try reading the article and then come back with that noise...mmmmkay?

MADONNA IS IN NO POSITION TO SCOLD ANYONE. SHE NEEDS TO SHUT HER BOTOX LOADED, BOY FUCKING FACE. AND THAT ALCOHOLIC WHORE CHELSEA NEEDS TO BACK THE F*** UP OFF MIA.

I couldn't have said it any better myself #CHURCH

Wow all of this coming from the queen of filthy and smut? Has senility begun to set in Magge? Remember your book, erotic music videos and tongue kissing Britney Spears at the VMAs? How was that a healthy, Wholesome display for the children to witness? 

50 Cent has" history of degrading women" just like the long history that Chelsea Handler has of making "acceptable" racists remarks and still having black artists & comedians flock to her show on a nightly basis!

F*** Madonna n Chelsea...smh...dont expect anything different from either hippocrates...

that's 'hypocrites,' but i got ya...

Round of LOUD applause! You took all the words right out of my subconscious! I have been "feeling" this for years, always caught up in the energy but never being able to sort it all out. I agree 100% hands down!
Handler is nothin but a white woman who taps into the slumming aspect to FEED her appetite for black man sex! When are these dumb brotha's going to wake up and leave these heathen women alone. Now mind you, not all white women are this way, but when it comes down to it, if they were forced to pick sides not many of them would stand up for women of color. I am so tired of seeing white privilege. I am truly tired, all of these black celebrity men getting called out for abusing white women in the media now is atrocious but will they stop? Nope they just keep on letting these white women slip that monkey chain around their necks, leading them around, having their babies, taking all their money and not only raping their bodies, but their souls and minds as well. This is NOT the first white woman to speak out against a black man after rolling around in the bed with him, Terrance Howards wife takes the cake!  I am all for REAL LOVE BETWEEN ANY COLOR, but I don't get the sense most of this between brothas and white women IS LOVE.

The world is LOST people.. still so lost!

I am glad you wrote this article, it took heart and I am impressed!

Oh no! Let those white hoos have them! Black women can do without them!

Chelsea called him names and that was bad but you should be offended that he tried to play Ciara to a white girl.  The reason that she was outraged is because he tried to include Chelsea in his pettiness against a black woman.  You should be outraged about that.  She should have dissed him.  I am glad that she did it in the way that she did!!! 50 Cent is a C**n.

That is the part that bothered me the most. WW Privilege has been around since forever, but the fact that 'Fiddy' did something so disrespectful to another black woman to impress a white woman is the BIG problem! Many black men do the same exact thing, while at the same time empowering a white woman weak and silly enough to buy into that nonsense. I don't care who dates who, but selling out your own race to justify your "preferences" is the badge of a self-hating, insecure, house-N! How many black men have gotten bold enough to just throw it out there that they have no love for black women? Has any other race of men ever done that? This slave mentality has gotten out of hand and while we cannot change someone else, we can boycott them. My black skin isn't good enough? Neither are my black dollars. Deuces.

1. Not all white women feel "entitled" or "privileged", simply for being white... 2. "Ho's" come in every colour, and so do hypocrites and racists. Just sayin'. And 3. Truth Slayer, I'm white, my son and his father are white, but my best friend is African-Canadian with 2 mixed race kids, and I would defend her and her kids against ANYONE or ANYTHING trying to do them any type of harm, based solely on their race. I have in fact gotten into numerous fights (some even physical) with other white people who had the audacity to call her and/or her kids the N-word. I love her and her girls to death, and would kill for them, or die defending them, as the case may be.

 Actually, sometimes when she has a bad day, yes, she says some of the same things, but oddly enough, she realises that if it were actually true, then I would be treated differently/better than her, which doesn't happen very often, at all. Maybe it's simply that we live in a better, more accepting community than most of you do, or maybe it's just because she chooses not to take everything so personally, but other than the colour of our skin, there is no difference between us, or the way most people around us interact with us. I never said once that it doesn't exist, you're right, it does, I was just pointing out that not all white women act like the article describes us, and it's racism to generalise ANY race or culture based on someone's bad experiences with a few of those types people. If you're reading an article which ultimately concludes that some people are being racist towards others, or that some people are being judged based on a few bad apples, then how can you, logically, turn right around and do it to someone else?? Sorry to burst everyone's bubbles, but YES, there are SOME white women who will tear you down any chance they get, but there are just as many who will build you up, if only you let down your guard, put aside YOUR OWN prejudices, and simply treat them how you want to be treated. Some of us really were raised not to see colour, believe it or not. I judge people on how they treat me, and how they present themselves, not what colour they are, or where they come from. My single Daddy raised me right.

 Oh, and just some BG on my family: My son is only one of two white children in his class, it's a very diverse area, and I was raised in what some people around here would consider a "black" area, which is why I take these generalisations about white women so personally; I have always accepted everyone, unless they genuinely were mean.

 No matter how liberal you are, you still experience white  privilege.  Go read some Tim Wise.

 I guess the big difference is that I choose not to use it to my advantage, like the women you all are talking about...

It is AUTOMATICALLY used to your advantage...all of you use it, whether you know it or not...it is part of your nature to do so...

Exactly!

 Well, I would love it if someone could explain to me why all of my black friends are almost always treated better than me, and tend to get what they want more often and have more attention from men, as well... I think maybe this has more to do with where you live. In my area, white people are the minority, so maybe that's why my experiences have been different. I also live in Toronto Canada, which is one of the most culturally diverse cities in the world. It may be different wherever you all live, but that's ok, we all have different life experiences, and that, not skin colour, makes us who we are, and determines what our outlook on life will be like. I'm happy with my life, whether I have "white woman privilege" or not. I personally don't think I do. That's all I'm trying to say.